If you’re a JenAndMen reader, you know that this title is completely inaccurate. Ironically, a guy I used to date back in the day asked me this question a couple weeks ago. I was truly surprised to hear that that’s what he thought. But when I told another guy friend of mine, he said that it appears to the world that this is, in fact, my M.O.
The truth of the matter is that I don’t dump guys because I don’t care…I dump them because I care too freaking much. These guys get me to a point where I mentally, emotionally, and physically cannot take their shit anymore. Feeling like a battered wife, I pick up and leave.
Is the world confused into thinking I’m heartless because these relationships are so short-lived? Or because I bash these fools on my daily blog? Or because I have a new guy within 48-hours? Perhaps the combination of the three is what’s getting me this bad rep.
Just like in This Is Not ‘Jen And Kill All Men’ Dot Com, I am here to say that I don’t hate all guys. Unfortunately, the ones I date bring me to a point where I’m forced into hating them because of their words and actions.
I assure you, loyal readers, just because I break up with someone doesn’t always mean I don’t care about them or that I wasn’t completely torn up over it during and after. I just happen to have a great turn-around period is all.
Did you also think that I didn’t care about my break-ups?